tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7145428031510898450.post634155505322929044..comments2023-10-15T08:46:56.779-07:00Comments on Are we there yet?: WavesMamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09625878685686816735noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7145428031510898450.post-36938229453814424882008-01-18T17:25:00.000-08:002008-01-18T17:25:00.000-08:00Well said, well written! Great picture too! Defi...Well said, well written! Great picture too! Definitely want to share this with my wife!DadsFirstBornhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04528262409461033961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7145428031510898450.post-76467095546898163272008-01-17T18:58:00.000-08:002008-01-17T18:58:00.000-08:00This is a really lovely post. Thank you for sharin...This is a really lovely post. Thank you for sharing!wendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03496731124395495383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7145428031510898450.post-58947889961322087902008-01-17T11:31:00.000-08:002008-01-17T11:31:00.000-08:00Hey,Are we due for a date?Your number one fanHey,<BR/>Are we due for a date?<BR/><BR/>Your number one fanAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7145428031510898450.post-25371032208958830642008-01-15T01:57:00.000-08:002008-01-15T01:57:00.000-08:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7145428031510898450.post-46333574058688094502008-01-13T13:16:00.000-08:002008-01-13T13:16:00.000-08:00Ah, but the guilt. Is that a learned thing? I do...Ah, but the guilt. Is that a learned thing? I don't remember directions to put others first, but I do think my Mom modeled it. Somehow my role in our family was peacekeeper. Some of that probably came about after my three youngers siblings were born - I became the second mama. I've always been the caretaker - as you well know, I am even the mama of the running club. I am just now learning to feel okay about asking for what I want, for spending money on me. By this point it's an integral part of my personality to care for others, and probably led me to the job I have. I just want to learn to let go of my guilt and worries that someone might be unhappy. It's hard. It really bothers me when I think someone might be upset, and most of the time I have to be stern with myself to hold the course despite the upset. <BR/><BR/>Hmmmm...touched a chord here, didn't you?Backofpackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13779487553272296752noreply@blogger.com